MSN: Former Iranian Soccer Accuses Government of Holding Families ‘Hostage’ if Players Speak Out: ‘This Is the DNA of the Regime’ Former Iranian Soccer Accuses Government of Holding Families ‘Hostage’ if Players Speak Out: ‘This Is the DNA of the Regime’ Psychologists can help people recognize and avoid the triggers that make them angry. They can also provide ways to help people manage the inevitable anger that sometimes flares without warning.